Most everyone agrees this is a crucial component of engaging students and helping them learn, but HOW exactly do we as educators build relationships that empower students? Compliance ---------> Engagement ----------> Empowerment For some of us, this comes easily and/or naturally. These are the "people" people, those with well developed senses of empathy, or other personality types that relate well to others. These might be the popular teachers, the charismatic leaders, the beloved coach, the ones that just seem to get it. I know we can all think of one or more people that fit that category. These people are lucky. For them, student engagement is often not as difficult. But engagement isn't the be all end all . Students can be engaged but not learn or become better at something. It makes it easier to connect with students, and might make it more likely that they will learn, but it is not a guarantee. We have to move a few steps further and promote empowerment ...